When examining the energetic dynamics of the throat chakra, the act of mirroring is when you alter what you say in order to try and reflect another person's energy.
By breaking down some of the steps involved in the mirroring process at the throat chakra, you can begin to understand a very specific energetic quality to mirroring, called matching.
When you attempt to mirror another person — meaning that you alter how you express or voice what is true for you — you also alter how you use your voice and how you communicate based on what you anticipate the other person will be receptive to.
From my perspective and based on the Chakredy framework, when you do this, it is a marker of throat chakra intuition. One of the energetic qualities of mirroring is altering how you present yourself and how you speak so that it can match another person.
One way to describe this dynamic is that if you were to have one person who is speaking, and what this person is saying is resonating at a particular frequency, maybe what you want to share is on a different frequency.
You’ve heard of being on the same wavelength. Well, let's say that you're not on that same wavelength, but out of some other origin — either an emotionally driven or thought driven response — and you shift the way that you are going to show up, speak, and express yourself based on where this person is. So then you shift to match that person.
Matching is a specific dynamic that is a particular aspect of the mirroring dynamic. It does not hold you to being centered in your truth because you are altering how you are showing up and altering what you're saying. How you're communicating is based on something outside of you.
Throat Chakra: Mirroring - Match (Part 3)
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HI,
I find that I do this matching very often, consciously, in class – when I teach to my learners. And I find that it works, to establish a connection with them, so I do it much in the first weeks of a course. Then, I shift the energetic vibration, and teach from my ‘wavelength’.
I’ve also been taught this principle, while I was growing up, to ‘speak to others according to their level of understanding’ … which I might have taken too far! So, for a part of my life, I have truly believed that ‘matching’ was a way to break through to others, and then, once the connection was established, I could get ‘me’ across and go back to my vibrational level.
Didn’t work quite this way; it only works with people who for some reason look up to me – e.g. students, but even there I have to be careful not to stay for too long in that vibration, or they believe that that’s all what there is of me.
Would love to attend the webinar, but cannot find the link to register … please let me know?
Thank you for sharing your work the way you do.
Hi Thuraya,
Thank you so much for your thoughtful and articulate response! There is so much here. Matching can most definitely serve us to connect with others. Thank you for sharing your experience here. The challenge does become to travel back to ourselves once we have established that crossing over energetically to do the matching. There are so many subtleties within this very specific energetic quality and you have captured them so well! Link will be added shortly:)